When Does A Person Become A Weirdo? |
After a news piece about a "swingers club" quietly operating in my city, I found myself pondering the implication of its existence. In many ways, the members of such clubs fall into the category of sexual deviants in that many sport values far from society's norm. Back in college I took a course that explored social deviants, how they were, shall we say, trained and recruited. This is a very interesting subject. While some people move off mainstream values for attention, to emphasize their individuality, or during self-exploration, it does have implications for the overall culture. The growing number of people seeking tattoos is evidence of this trend.
The topic of weirdos is complex because it can also extend into the area of dysfunctional individuals from which society suffers no shortage. Whether crazy, stupid, or simply marching to the beat of a different drummer it seems the number of these people is on the rise. In many parts of the western world, society has been on a mission that encourages people to embrace their individuality and this is apparent by the growing number of eccentric people. What is leading to this explosion of "I am Me" and often self-centered behavior? One thing is clear, more people are being allowed to express their individuality and this can be seen in the way many people claim gender is no longer carved in stone at birth.
Is This Weird Or Very Cool? |
Feeding into this subject is the concern that by adopting a hands-off approach to halting the expansion of this trend we institutionalize or make it a normal and acceptable part of our culture. It could be argued that self-expression is a human right and I'm not advocating denying anyone that right. As an example to highlight the fact this is an issue, the following was lifted from the comment section of a recent online publication where many of those weighing in voiced concern or noted what they saw as a troubling trend.
We need a new demographic category: WALMARTIANS.
They are almost always overweight, usually functionally illiterate, often incapable of all but the most basic personal hygiene, not merely unemployed but also unemployable, addicted to corn syrup junk food and TV they were force-fed as children, convinced that nothing is their fault because they've never heard otherwise and physically aggressive whenever there is no prospect of immediate punishment.
Such types were rare when I was a lad but now they are 10 to 20 percent of the population and increasing.
It's not their fault but it's time to cull the herd.
They are almost always overweight, usually functionally illiterate, often incapable of all but the most basic personal hygiene, not merely unemployed but also unemployable, addicted to corn syrup junk food and TV they were force-fed as children, convinced that nothing is their fault because they've never heard otherwise and physically aggressive whenever there is no prospect of immediate punishment.
Such types were rare when I was a lad but now they are 10 to 20 percent of the population and increasing.
It's not their fault but it's time to cull the herd.
Morbidly Obese People Are Often Seen As Impaired |
An article by Ralph Nader that appeared on Common Dreams explored the idea that if you want to see where a country’s priorities lie you should look at the direction its culture is moving. The article which is linked above exhibits a very strong bit of a "leftist tinge," however, some of the points he makes seem valid. Nader writes, Plutocrats like to control the range of permissible public dialogue. Plutocrats also like to shape what society values. If you want to see where a country’s priorities lie, look at how it allocates its money. He contends that while teachers and nurses earn comparatively little for performing critical jobs, corporate bosses including those who pollute our planet and bankrupt defenseless families, make millions.
America's Caste System (click to enlarge) |
Circling back to the subjects of weirdos, diversity, and individuality could it be this is all being encouraged to weaken and divide the power of the masses? For years Japan has been pointed to as a society that functions with little friction. Much of the credit is attributed to their culture and its homogeneous nature. Japan has a strong sense of group and national identity and little or no ethnic or racial diversity. Another unique aspect of Japanese society has a highly structured approach to managing and resolving these differences.
Footnote: This article should be viewed in its entirety as a cultural "observation and nothing more." The fact is our culture is always changing. Please consider it "food for thought." Also, please note, a big problem we face today is society's inability to get people to obey its rules and laws. Long-term this has dire consequences. The article below explores this trend and its ramifications.
https://brucewilds.blogspot.com/2019/06/societys-inability-to-get-people-to.html
Bruce -- I appreciate your thoughts and your blog.
ReplyDelete1) hyper-individualism (I'm unique, I'm special and you cannot challenge these assertions without me exercising my right to be outraged)
2) student loan scam -- largest wealth transfer in history of US -- from the naive borrowers to the BabyBoomers who occupy safe jobs with pension and health insurance in the higher education system
3) obamacare -- many cannot afford health insurance let alone health care -- serious cognitive dissonance on this one for the prog left
4) nobody went to jail after 2008 -- all the free market folks, mostly on the Right and Libertarians, lost all moral high ground and credibility on this one. We bailed out the offending parties and then let them keep their jobs and wealth!!!
Crazy times.
Thanks.
A lot of us were rather unhappy that nobody went to jail or was held responsible after 2008. It should be noted it was the Democrats that were in charge at the time and failed to pursue the "offending parties."
DeleteI get the impression that you are mainly referring to 'young people' ( under 35 years of age ). This age group may not have been 'beaten into the mold' yet. Not conforming to the norm. Hopefully they would be marching to the beat of their own, reasoned drum,although sadly I have my doubts. The potential for our ever-increasingly complex society to perplex and confuse, especially the impressionable young, can lead to novel behaviour. Throw in gender to that already impressionable young group, with their greater biological imperative/hormonally driven animal act fed by indoctrinated social/tribal conditioning,overt sexualisation,advertising,MSM, religion and History, and sexual nonconformity could mirror social nonconformity. Any 'caste system' can be a necessary deflection from the class system, a convenient and useful distraction; and, as you ask, "could it be this is all being encouraged to weaken and divide the power of the masses?",yes it would be very convenient, just as "it can be argued this tends to reduce the ability of individuals to move up the social ladder." Is that your ladder, or theirs ?
ReplyDeleteThanks for your comment. The article was not about young people, sadly a lot of boomers and older people are dysfunctional and disconnected from society. As for the "social ladder,' I don't see it as mine or theirs, it is just the social ladder.
ReplyDeleteThe wierdos and walmartians you identify generally occupy Level 5 of your pyramid and therefore are most probably not responsible for the collapse of American society, which can be more likely attributed to Level 1, since Level 1 have the power to effect change. I agree the US currently has an existential problem with this issue. (Fed, debt, 1%, MIC, endless wars etc).
ReplyDeleteHaving said that, some basic rules of life make sense, (and you are fortunate if you learn them early in life):
- treat people as you wish to be treated (this message is universal across religions)
- you have both rights and responsibilities usually in equal measure.
- your rights most likely do not extend to infringing the rights of others.
- the first rule of charity is to aim not to be personally dependent on it.
- work hard, and spend less than you earn.
- you always have choices, these empower you.
- when you are pointing your finger at someone else, there are three fingers pointing back at you.